Coaching for individuals and couples who feel stuck in the same patterns, and are ready to feel safe, understood and inspired in their relationships again.
100% online. Clients across the US, Canada, the UK and beyond.
Andrea Zepeda, CPC. Trusted by clients in 20+ countries
These are the words I hear most often on a first call. Maybe you’ve said some of them too.
None of this means something is wrong with you. It means there’s a pattern worth understanding, and it can change.
Understand yourself. Change how you show up. Transform your relationships.
I’m not here to judge you, take sides or tell you who’s right. I’m here to help you see the entire board, and understand why your system keeps responding the way it does.
Long before I became a Master Coach, I spent years training high-pressure corporate teams and leaders in intensely multicultural environments at Hyatt. There, I saw an undeniable truth: how we show up in our relationships directly reflects how regulated, safe and aligned we feel within ourselves.
Today, my work bridges rigorous ICF and energy coaching frameworks, trauma-informed methodologies and somatic science. I don’t just look at what you say. I look at what your nervous system, your boundaries and your body are communicating.
Clients often tell me I see what they can’t. I usually can. But true integration happens when you see it for yourself, at the speed of safety, on your own terms.
“I believe every relationship can become a space for growth, connection and healing.”
“Some of the best chess players in the world can look at any board and see all of the best plays ten moves out. Andrea is like this with relationships. She understands all the things I never could on my own. She has been crucial in getting my partner and me to a much better place than I thought was possible.”
“Andrea has really helped my husband and me communicate better. She is nonjudgmental and sensible, and she has helped us not only with each other but with our relationships with others, including our children.”Albany, New York
“Andrea has been essential in evolving the course and direction of my life. I have so much gratitude for her care, attention, patience, commitment and knowledge.”New York, NY
She poses questions to me that make me think about situations in a completely different light.Katy, TX
A great listener who really gets down to the deep roots of the issue.Delmar, NY
She shares her honest opinion and provides me clear and direct feedback.Virginia Beach, VA
I felt that I could really break down my feelings and complexity and understand myself better.Singapore
She really helps me get to the core of my struggles and gives me great exercises to try throughout the week!Anaheim, CA
Andrea helps me to understand myself and grow. These sessions are incredible.Buenos Aires, Argentina
A clear path from where you are today to the way you want to love and be loved. Every step builds on the one before.
A first conversation to understand what’s happening and whether we’re a good fit. Its cost is credited toward your first package.
We look at what you carry, where your reactions come from and what keeps repeating.
The deep work: why you are the way you are, where your patterns began, and healing or releasing them by rewiring the brain. This is what makes change last.
Practical tools to regulate your emotions, set boundaries and ask for what you need, and now they actually stick.
A new way of relating, to yourself and to others, that holds up long after our sessions end.
Grounded in When the Body Says No by Gabor Maté, How Emotions Are Made by Lisa Feldman Barrett, What My Bones Know by Stephanie Foo, and the work of Brené Brown and Esther Perel.
Breaking the Pattern helps you see why the same conflicts keep coming back, and what to do differently next time.
On your own or together. Every session happens online, in English or Spanish, wherever you are.
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One-on-one coaching to understand yourself deeply and stop repeating the same emotional patterns.
For the two of you
Each of you understands your own patterns, so you can stop reacting to each other and start reconnecting.
For every relationship in your life
Healthier relationships with family, friends and colleagues, built on years of studying and working with human behavior across every kind of background.
Not sure where to start? Begin with a discovery call. Its cost is credited toward a 4-session package. Book a discovery call
No. Coaching focuses on the present and the future: understanding your patterns and building new skills. It’s not a substitute for mental health treatment, and if therapy would serve you better, I’ll let you know. The two can also work together: many of my clients do both, and they complement each other.
Not at all. Many of my clients are single, healing from a breakup, or simply tired of repeating the same story. Your relationship with yourself is where this work begins.
We meet by video call. All you need is a quiet, private space and a stable internet connection. Once we know each other, sessions can also be audio-only, and in special cases, by text. I work in English and Spanish, with clients in the US, Canada, the UK and around the world.
Yes. Changing how you show up changes the whole relationship. Many clients start on their own, and some partners join later.
Coaching isn’t the right support when there is violence, abuse or control in a relationship. If you’re experiencing that, your safety comes first. In the US, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. In the UK, call the National Domestic Abuse Helpline at 0808 2000 247. In Canada, find local support at sheltersafe.ca. In an emergency, call 911 in the US and Canada, or 999 in the UK.
You share what’s happening, I ask a few questions, and together we decide if working together makes sense. If you continue with a 4-session package, the cost of the call is credited toward it.
You can cancel free of charge up to 24 hours before your session. Rescheduling on the same day is free if there’s availability. Cancellations within 24 hours are charged in full, though emergencies are always considered.